[3:8] Our Lord, do not cause our hearts to deviate after You have guided us; and give us mercy from You; You are the Bestower.
They do not increase in nearness unless they increase in refined behavior (adab). Taking refuge in maintaining distance is the most powerful means for respecting proper behavior (adab).
It is said when they sincerely call for help in a beautiful manner, they are assisted by the lights of[divine] sufficiency.